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FAMILY: THE SANCTUARY
OF LIFE |
Life – its Theological Vision
God by creating human person in his
image and likeness bestowed on him a
grandeur that cannot be contested or
overlooked. Human life is considered
great because of the creative
intervention of God right from its
beginning. If God is the master of
life and its source, then no one
else can claim absolute authority
over life.
As a gift of God, life is to be
considered sacred and be protected.
This is the basis of the commandment
“you shall not kill.” This
commandment does not simply means
‘not to kill’ in a literal sense,
but more than that, it demands
safeguarding and protecting human
life in all circumstances. Since
human person has a value that goes
far beyond his talents and
qualities, his worth should not be
determined on the basis of his
qualities or his usefulness.
Therefore, even when a person is a
foetus or is handicapped or is in
old age or has incurable diseases,
he has an inestimable worth.
Therefore there is no justification
whatsoever to consider such lives
worthless and to disregard or
destroy it in any circumstance. Pope
John Paul II in his encyclical
“Gospel of Life (Evangelium vitae)
specially draws our attention to our
great responsibility to respect and
protect each and every life in the
light of the great challenges human
life has to face today.
A human person should never try to
be the Lord and Master of life, even
though God has entrusted him with
the responsibility of transmitting
life responsibly and to preserve and
protect it. The absolute authority
of God over life is the powerful
theological reason for our
responsibility to protect life
without in any way destroying it.
Because human life has a unique
value and God is its master, the
issues of life and death raise very
fundamental moral questions.
Responsible Parenthood
There are three essential duties
which the partners in married life
have to fulfil. They are: 1.
Constant growth in conjugal love, 2.
Generous and responsible motherhood
and fatherhood, and 3. Proper
upbringing of children. There may be
occasions when one cannot fulfil all
these responsibilities at the same
time. In such situations, due to the
necessity of safeguarding conjugal
love or due to the great
difficulties in bringing up
children, one may have to set limits
to the goal of procreation. The
couples should have the intention
and willingness to give birth to
only so many children as their
particular circumstances of life
would permit their proper
upbringing. This serious
responsibility of the couples is
called responsible motherhood and
fatherhood.
Therefore, the first and foremost
responsibility of the couples is
making before God and fellow
brethren a mutually agreed decision
on how many children they should
have, considering their particular
circumstances in life and in
accordance with their conscience. In
making such a decision, the couples
should take into consideration every
aspect of their conjugal life and
the family life in general. At the
same time, the couples have also a
grave responsibility to respond
generously and prudently to the call
of God of becoming parents. The
selfishness in this sphere is
absolutely immoral. Therefore the
most fundamental moral issue of
responsible motherhood and
fatherhood is whether there is
sufficient reason to decide not to
have a child for the time being or
not to have any more children at
all. If the attitude of the couples
in this regard is sincere, they
should, at a later stage, be
prepared to re-examine their
decision before God.
In order to live responsible
motherhood and fatherhood, sometimes
the couples may have to control
procreation either temporarily or
permanently. The Church teaches that
the couples should not, as many do
today, employ any means to achieve
this goal without any discretion.
Even though there is some
justification for birth control, the
Church holds the view that direct
abortion, sterilization of either
husband or wife and the use of
contraceptives that would prevent
the natural outcome of sexual
intercourse, are not acceptable. The
Church insists on the
unacceptability of the use of
contraceptives because the
uncontrolled use of such means could
jeopardise the conjugal fidelity and
destroy respect towards women and
endanger the moral standards in
society.
What, then, is the means the Church
approves for responsible motherhood
and fatherhood? The nature itself
has set up a rhythm for the process
of conception in women. Only a few
days in a month a woman is fertile
and can conceive. These are the days
when ovum is produced. If one can
detect these fertile days and avoid
intercourse on such days, one can
regulate conception. It is by making
use of this nature-given possibility
that the couples should regulate the
birth of children. This method is
called the natural family planning
method or the rhythm method. This is
the only method that the Church
proposes for couples for birth
control.
Treatment for Sterility
There are different means developed
by medical sciences for helping
couples suffering from sterility.
They are also available in many
hospitals today. Many couples
suffering from sterility subject
themselves to such treatments
without sufficiently reflecting
about the moral issues involved in
such treatments.
Artificial insemination and test
tube method (I.V.F.) are the two
important treatments for
sterilisation. In such methods there
may be occasions of accepting semen
or ovum from donors other than the
husband or the wife. There are also
occasions when the help of a
surrogate mother is employed to give
birth to a child for a woman who
herself does not have the capacity
for bearing her own child in her own
womb and give birth. Neither those
who give such treatments nor those
who subject themselves to such
treatments reflect seriously about
the many moral issues involved in
such artificial methods of
reproduction. They are concerned
only about the success of the
treatment, the expenses involved and
the qualities of the child obtained
through such methods.
Even though sterility is a
deplorable state in family life, the
Church considers the use of
artificial methods of reproduction
to overcome it as immoral. In
artificial insemination, a child is
born as a result of a technology.
But a child is to be born out of the
conjugal love of the couples.
Procreation of children is to be
attained through the conjugal act of
love of the couples. Because of
this, the Church considers
artificial insemination immoral.
There are much more serious moral
issues involved in the test tube
baby method. In this method besides
the fact that the child is born due
to the employment of a scientific
technology, there is also the fact
that the fertilization takes place
not in the womb of the mother, but
in a laboratory. Human embryos are
produced at will in the laboratory
and implanted in the womb of the
mother as required and the remaining
embryos are destroyed mercilessly.
The Church cannot approve of this as
she considers an embryo a person
from the very moment of
fertilization. It is more correct to
say in this method that ‘a child is
produced’ rather than saying ‘a
child is born’.
Besides, in order to cure a certain
type of sterility, even the direct
help of the sperm donor or ovum
donor or the surrogate mother is
employed in certain methods of
treatment mentioned above. In an
effort to give birth to a child with
the help of technology, if there is
a third person besides the couple
involved as sperm donor or ovum
donor or surrogate mother, this goes
against the unity of marriage
itself. Only the husband and the
wife have the right for conjugal
union and procreation. Seeking the
help of a third party for
procreation would be an act
destroying the fundamental unity of
marriage. This is absolutely
immoral. It can by no means be
permitted. Besides, the child born
in this manner will not have any
genetic relationship to one of the
spouses. This is a grave injustice
done to that child.
Since there are such moral issues
involved in artificial insemination
methods, the Church does not approve
of adopting such methods for the
treatment of sterility. The Church
acknowledges that sterility in
conjugal life is indeed a painful
thing, but she does not look at it
as an evil to be eradicated by
employing even immoral means. The
Church encourages such couples to
accept the state of sterility as one
of the unexpected painful situations
we often face in life and to realise
their call to parenthood by adopting
orphans and giving them a life.
Sins against Life
Instead of adopting an attitude
favouring human life by loving,
respecting and protecting life,
there is today a wide-spread
attitude in people of considering
life as a burden and an enemy. An
uncontrollable contraceptive
mentality is gaining strength among
the couples. Limiting the number of
children to the minimum has become
very common. The motivating force
behind this is one’s pleasure
seeking and selfishness.
Besides, today it has become very
common to procure an abortion even
for very flimsy reasons. There are
even instances where abortion is
presented as a simple method of
birth control. Today there are many
who would easily go for an abortion
when the foetus is not grown
sufficiently or when it is not of
the sex the parents wanted. Since
the Government of India has declared
abortion legal subject to certain
norms, ordinary people mistakenly
think that there is nothing wrong in
procuring abortion. The fact that
something is legally not punishable
does not mean that the same is
morally right. The Church teaches
that a human foetus right from the
moment of conception is to be
respected as a human person and
wilfully destroying it is to be
considered equal to homicide.
Producing human embryos at will in
the laboratories and using them for
artificial insemination and for
experiments and destroying them when
not needed can never be justified
even when this is motivated by very
good intentions. If an embryo is a
human life right from the moment of
fertilization, destroying it during
any phase of its growth is an
abortion and ought to be absolutely
condemned.
Kerala is one of the States having
most number of suicides. On average
27 persons commit suicide per day.
An attitude considering suicide as a
solution for anything and everything
is on the increase here. Those who
are called to protect life which God
has given us in his mercy,
themselves attempt to destroy it.
This tendency has to be resisted by
all means. Effective help has to be
given to persons who live in
circumstances that may lead to
suicide. The innumerable murders
committed almost daily in our State
and the very many deaths caused by
road accidents indicate an outright
negative attitude towards life.
Those who are bound to respect and
protect life themselves become the
cause for its destruction.
Life encounters many challenges even
at its final stages. We can see two
types of responses to those who are
in imminent death and those who are
suffering from incurable diseases –
1. Attempting to prolong their lives
by procuring the most expensive but
unnecessary treatments, 2. Helping
such persons die as quickly as
possible or ignoring them totally.
Both these two responses are not
correct. Until natural death takes
place, the relatives of those who
are in imminent death have the duty
and responsibility to provide them
with sufficient care to preserve
their lives. If the person dies in
the absence of such care, it is
equal to mercy killing or
euthanasia. The relatives concerned
are to be considered culpable of
this crime. On the other hand, there
is no meaning in postponing
indefinitely the death of a person
in imminent death with the help of
the most advanced technologies.
Natural death is to be allowed to
take its own course.
Mar Sebastian Adayanthrath |